what would you do...

topic posted Tue, August 5, 2008 - 7:29 PM by  offlinemadame7
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If you had a nemesis at work who went out of her way to fuck with you?
I have given this person two strong warnings that i will not tolerate being abused by her. I anticipate another strike at some point, and i'm trying to prepare myself for how to handle it. She dislikes me and the fact that i have been very upfront and vocal about dysfunctional situations in the workplace. I have never done or said anything negative to her on a personal level. For the most part i just stay away, because she is a very unstable, extremely damaged individual and i don't want her baggage anywhere near me.

Today her wicked commentary, completely unprovoked and unwarranted, got my adrenaline pumping so much that i could hardly drive safely to get home. I did my best to expel the vibration of her psychic attack--it helps me to take a deep breath, forcefully vocalize "Apopantos Kakodiamonos", and then i do this intense hissing and hacking thing that is rather involuntary but feels like a good psychic vomiting. I find myself wishing harm upon her, which goes against the Buddhist parts of my nature. My reaction to her is in self-defense and i would not expend energy reaching out to fuck with her. But i want her to know that she's messing with the wrong person.

What would you do?
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madame7
Seattle
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  • Re: what would you do...

    Sat, August 9, 2008 - 11:43 AM
    Well, if it were me, I would do some operation or other to kill her in some entertaining way. But as you are not into that, a simple blocking servitor might work, or something that will cause her to find a job elsewhere.
    • Re: what would you do...

      Wed, August 20, 2008 - 2:04 PM
      what I have found which is one of the best ways is to think of the end result for the person you want to suffer. Concentrated thought brings about benefit or curse quicker than actually doing it yourself. 'You are what you think about' and 'thoughts become things' are not a coined term for nothing.....

      Do not think about the "how's" but rather the "why's", its the whys that count when causing someone havok....for instance I have a friend called shez who's boyfriend is a control freak and I mean a CONTROL FREAK, he even tries to control his friends. I knew Shez a year before she got with this man so I was friends with her for longer than him, now that he goes out with her she cannot do anything without his say so which to her chagrin annoys the fuck out of her though she feel powerless to do anything about it.

      Now this dickhead started to abuse me with words and make a mockery of me in front of others...fine by me I said, Im not going to bother thinking about him, well one day he made a terrible mistake, he accused me of being a pervert and a pervert I am not, I snapped in my head.

      I thought Of the worsed case scenario. now I am the sort of person that can think a concentrated thought for as long as it takes, I like to play with my victims. Lol, I think about what could happen and what I would like to happen to him on a daily basis.

      The universe would be pointless without a thinking mind so the awesome power of the universe is at my response and control because that's the way it is, the mind and the universe are ONE.....

      Everything I think about regarding shez's boyfriend happens. I wanted him to suffer terrible pain, not just physical but all, emotional, mental psychological and spiritual and believe me he suffers though he does not know its me that's causing his pain and that's the best bit because he tells me what his problems are and I make his pain worse, forearmed is foreknowledge, knowledge IS power, names ARE control.

      Think some nasty outcomes for your evil little bitch co-worker and do not think of the circumstances and it will come true. Start along the lines of nasty car crash pictures, but see you co-worker in the wreckage, see a picture of someone in hospital but picture their face being the image. It does work.

      The power of the mind is unlimited...... Peace, Love and unity amongst the deadriconians
      • Re: what would you do...

        Wed, August 20, 2008 - 11:08 PM
        Thanks for the ideas. I knew there were more creative options than just killing her.
        I am not by nature a wicked person. I have transcended much of the darkness that used to consume me and for the most part, i operate in the light--even utilizing the same principle you just suggested, only wishing the best for people in most cases. Sometimes i wonder if i even belong in this tribe, but i believe in balance and am not afraid of some extreme perspective even if i don't fully agree with it (as in murdering someone or physically harming them)

        I have thought about this a lot since i first posted and i basically came to the same conclusion, that i should use the power of my mind to affect her in some way. What i would like to happen is for something extreme and powerful to happen in her life that causes her to come to a severe reality check or life assessment. And if i succeed in bringing that about, i have the choice to either quietly observe the results, or let her know that i had something to do with it as a warning not to fuck with me anymore.
        • Re: what would you do...

          Thu, September 4, 2008 - 2:52 AM


          One could Invoke "Darwin" and "Mister Murphy* ( of Murphy's Law)
          and in a highly structured rite perform a distruction spell
          (with a high hilarity factor) over a copy of , or latest print out off the net of
          The Darwin Awards.
          That, if nothing else should help you stop taking this human vermin too seriously.

          Randy
          *******
          • Re: what would you do...

            Tue, September 9, 2008 - 7:26 PM
            death-magick is marriage
            marriage is death-magick

            when you perform an attack-rite
            you are marrying yourself to your target

            you want to?
  • Re: what would you do...

    Mon, September 15, 2008 - 1:12 AM
    It's too late to do what I would do, because you've warned her.

    Seeing as you've given her all the power in the situation, I guess I suggest ending the situation immediately, breathing deeply while telling yourself "this is bullshit. Fuck her. It's ridiculous to pay this much attention to her; I need to just get a grip, do my work, and ignore her as best I can while maybe learning to giggle at her antics." From then on, smile at her from time to time, totally normally, no malice implicit or intended, and put her entirely out of your mind whenever possible.

    But only,

    • Rarely, if ever, warn people who're actually your enemies. Tell them nothing; give them nothing at all.

    • Your enemy is one of your truest friends. Only your enemy can be trusted to show you honestly where your weaknesses lay. Your enemy is your counterpart. Will your enemy be your undoing? Listen carefully to your enemy; accept everything your enemy offers you, with grace.

    • Laugh.
    • Re: what would you do...

      Tue, September 16, 2008 - 1:27 AM
      my warnings were psychic and also through another person.
      i didn't ever look her in the eye and tell her to back off, like maybe i should have.
      But thank you, i got a lot out of your suggestions.

      Ironically, i was at a club last Saturday night and was in the bathroom about halfway through the show. When i came out of the stall, she (my "nemesis") was coming out of the other stall. We both looked up in surprise and the shock of it made us both burst out laughing. I said, "OK, we're alone in the bathroom..." She giggled and looked around pseudo-dramatically, and i continued, "so do you want to fight me?". We both smiled and i think she was embarrassed, and the whole thing was so relieving that it may have just killed the heaviness that was surrounding our relationship before. It felt like the ice had been broken and i am now in a better position to deal with her directly on a heart level.

      This all makes me wonder how much of her "attack" was created by my perception.
      If we were truly enemies could we have laughed it off like that? She was like a little girl, far from the warrior i'd seen a month ago.
      I now believe that i am not hateful enough to attract real enemies.
      • Re: what would you do...

        Tue, September 16, 2008 - 5:26 AM
        my warnings were psychic and also through another person.
        i didn't ever look her in the eye and tell her to back off, like maybe i should have.
        But thank you, i got a lot out of your suggestions.

        My suggestion would be a polite and adult talk with this person. if no positive result come from it, then let her have it.
        • Re: what would you do...

          Sat, November 15, 2008 - 6:52 PM
          This place is entertaining and enlightening - I mean educating by that . I should drop in more often and we could all exchange recipes and recipe books.

          I am getting in "the mood".
  • Re: what would you do...

    Fri, December 19, 2008 - 11:07 PM
    Well Madame7,

    If you want her to know she's messing with the wrong person then reaching out and messing with her shouldn't be out of the question.
    I presume you are a magick user? If so then handle this like a magician. I can get pissed and what not as well. But heres what I mean. And mind you this is based upon what I think it means to be a magician. Hold your head up high, contemplate your Kether. Try to raise yourself above the annoying portion of this so that you may remain calm level and objective for the next step. Here you need to determin the best way of dealing with her. Ultimately the most basic thing you want is for her out of your hair. Start operating magick to level harm (if you absolutely must!) only when other options have failed or she somehow escalates these encounters so that your safety is actually in question. Focus on finding what you can to get her out of the way. Is she seeking promotion? If so would this promotion do the job of getting her out of the way? Would it transfer her to another department or facility? Will it send her to another shift? If so Work magick to assist her in that. I know this sounds silly and ignores the fact that you can't stand this person. But that is what you must do, and don;t quibble about working magick favorably for someone with out their permission. First of all, screw that! It's practically a mandate to help people. Secondly that's what Silence is for, well part of it anyway. Finally if you've decided to work magick to help you deal with another Human, then that conversation is over. Plain and simple. Your goal is to remove this individual as a hassle. This kind of disturbance is intolerable, and should be dealt with diplomatically, but we've all worked with folks who can't be dealt with in this way. Now I don't believe in the 3 fold law, it's not balance and to me natures' primary signature is Ma'at. I do however respect Karma and try to avoid generating in the negative. So again I advise trying to remove her. If you cannot find a specific, just do an operation with the specific intent of removing her. Mind what your told about doing unnecessary harm, even to your enemies and give that instruction to the spirits, or force you're harnessing for this. If all goes well, and that's entirely up to you. You are the Magician (again I presume) after all. You'll walk away from this more powerful and in control of your universe than ever before, you didn't generate negative karma, and if they did get a better job out of it you have every right to feel magnanimous and wise. And best yet know one needs to be any the wiser. Silence.

    Russ
  • Re: what would you do...

    Sat, December 20, 2008 - 9:16 PM
    If one needs "magic/k" and "spells" to solve life problems or daily issues with work or school then such things are not for you. The more of these spells and "rituals" you put out into your environment the more problems will arise. Solve the problems with this person as an adult. Continue to put up a strong distance, let her know the social barriers you put up. Only use "magic/k" in this instance to affect and dissipate any negative energy you may feel growing inside of you or attached to your sphere because of this person.

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